Yes! It's true! We are home and in the beautiful, amazing, wonderful country of Canada once again! I could not be more excited! Although I am beyond ecstatic to sleep in my own bed, eat something other than humus for breakfast, and have a reliable internet connection, I am very happy to have experienced the adventure that was my life in the Middle East for the past 30 days with my dad.
Our last 24 hours in Israel were a bit of a gong show. It started on our final full day in Tel Aviv. I awoke to the sound of drumming, children's music being blasted on loud speakers, and hundreds of kids yelling. I couldn't understand what was happening. We were on the 9th floor of an apartment building and it felt like I was standing right next to a gymnasium full of kids. I thought to myself "Wow, I must have slept in if kids are already out for recess or something". However, I looked at my watch and it was 7:00 AM. The music blasted, the kids screamed, and the drums were pounded for over 2 hours, non-stop. I went to take a shower hoping that the sound of the water would drown the noise out for a little while. This was a futile exercise as there was no hot water and I could only endure the freezing cold shower for a few minutes before I gave up. Needless to say, by 9:00 AM, I was irritable and not very much fun to be around.
I told my dad that if I didn't get out of the apartment I was going to go crazy. I decided to go do some souvenir shopping. I wasn't very successful because Bat Yam is a bit of a random place and there aren't have many options for gifts. I walked around for a long time, trying to enjoy my last few hours in the Middle East. My vision of this day included getting a coffee and sitting in the sun watching people. In reality, it was me rushing around trying to find gifts that weren't total garbage while store owners glared at me and loud EDM music blasted in every store and on every street corner. I have never considered myself someone who really values "quiet time" (it usually doesn't exist because I'm always the one talking). However, after this trip, I am so much more appreciative of silence and the peace that comes with it. My one moment of solitude came when I found an "Aroma Coffee Bar", a popular coffee chain in Toronto (which I just recently found out was started by an Israeli who moved to Canada and started it there after it was already established in Israel). They had my favourite drink and it was ah-mahzing. It was nice to drink something familiar and get a taste of home. While I was out "shopping", Dad rode along the coast and enjoyed one last bike ride along the sea.
So happy in this moment! |
"Shopping" in Bat Yam. What a disaster. |
This is a house/store LITERALLY made of garbage in Bat Yam. What is life, |
Dad's kind of shopping-everything you need in one place. Too bad it's a challenge to find anything. |
Cycling along the sea in Tel Aviv |
Last day in Israel |
We were determined to have a nice walk along the coast before our last dinner in Israel. Being that it was our last meal, Dad was willing to go to a restaurant that was a little fancier than our usual shawarma stand type of place. He even suggested we have an ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGE (gasp!) to celebrate! We were able to get some great views of the sea just as the sun started to set.
Last meal! |
The following day, we woke up at 5:30 AM to meet the van we had arranged to pick us up at 6:30 AM. This was an airport shuttle service that we had e-mailed before we even left Canada to arrange things. We also called them the day before, and e-mailed them a second time to receive confirmation that everything was good to go. All of the taxis here are small cars, so we had to make sure we had our transportation figured out beforehand. Of course, at 6:30 AM there is no van. Dad calls the guy and he says "Oh yeah, someone will be there in 20 minutes". Of course Dad lost it and I was frustrated too because the guy kept asking "What time does your flight leave?". Our flight wasn't leaving for 3.5 hours but since we had the bikes, we knew security would be a long process and with the terrorist attack in Brussels, everything was taking a lot longer at airports. So of course the guy was saying "Oh, you have plenty of time to get there, don't worry". Eventually I said "it doesn't matter what time our flight leaves, the point is we are paying you for a service and you said you would be here at 6:30 to take us to the airport and you think being 20 minutes late is acceptable which it's not. WE LITERALLY HAVE A PLANE TO CATCH!". Twenty minutes went by and there was still no van. Another ten minutes pass, still nothing. I had to get on the phone with the driver who said he was another ten minutes away. Needless to say, we were stressing out, wondering if anyone was actually going to come. FINALLY, the driver arrived and told us that he was only called after 6:30 AM to come pick us up. It blows my mind that a business can be run like this. I am telling you, inefficient operations management drives me crazy and Israel is full of ineffective and disorganized business practices.
Anyway, we made it to the airport. We went through multiple security checkpoints, and eventually went to check our bags. The lady at the counter didn't seem to know how to do this. Surprising seeing as how she is an airline attendant. This is literally her job. Her supervisor came over and they started speaking in Hebrew for about 10 minutes while ignoring our presence entirely. It seems the bicycles were causing some confusion. Dad and I each had two pieces of checked luggage (the allotted amount for free luggage on an international flight on Air Canada) as well as the bikes. We were expecting to pay $50 for each bicycle, but the luggage would be free. The supervisor told us it would be $50 for each bike and $100 for each piece of luggage since we were only allowed to have one piece each making it a grand total of $300 for luggage. Dad told her that we were actually allowed two pieces of checked luggage each. When we came over to the Middle East on Air Canada, we had no issues. She said "Well, if you can prove it, that's fine, but otherwise it will be $300". Ummm...obviously this lady has no idea what she'd gotten herself into. She clearly hadn't dealt with Keith Odegard, the KING of documentation. Sure enough, Dad pulls out his file folder and shows her the clause that states we are entitled to two pieces of checked luggage. Her response: "Sir, that says Feb. 22 and it is March 23 now so..." (My thoughts during this conversation: what? how does that make sense? You change your baggage policy on a monthly basis?). Dad literally says "Ok, how about this..." and shows her, in writing, the policy for March 23rd stating that we were entitled to two pieces of luggage! She says "Ok, I have to check the system to see if it is actually correct" (What? Who are you?) and eventually, without really admitting defeat says "Ok, yes, two pieces for free". Obviously, I'm thinking at this point that my dad is awesome and that his preparedness has saved us on more than one occasion. I'm also completely baffled at the fact that a supervisor at Air Canada does not know what the baggage allowance is for international flights. I fly on various airlines all the time and I know each airline's baggage policy after a quick glance at the website. HOW is it possible that this woman doesn't know this SIMPLE fact?? Again, it frustrates me to no end.
We went through what felt like 100 more checkpoints, showing our passports at each one, opening the bike boxes, taping them back up again and eventually made it through to our gate. I did a little shopping at the duty free store not realizing that the prices were in American dollars instead of shekels. I got up to the counter and was about to be slapped with $400 USD bill (for three items of clothing, might I add...total ripoff) until I said "Ohh....I see. Yeah, no thanks." and walked away. Our flight to Toronto was delayed and ended up lasting 12.5 hours. Thankfully, I was sitting beside a little baby who was adorable and never cried. I got to hold him and squeeze his cheeks so that made things more enjoyable.
My buddy |
He was so infatuated with his hands the whole flight |
Our flight to Calgary was also delayed so we spent an extra 90 minutes sitting on the tarmac before leaving. All in all, it was an exhausting day of travel but we made it home safely and we are so thankful!
A few final thoughts:
As I reflect on the past month, it is difficult to put into words the many things I've experienced. I will forever cherish the trip despite the many challenges that Dad and I encountered. I will have fond memories of Jordan, the kindness of the people we met there, and the incredible time we had with locals in the desert. Although I was often frustrated by the attitude of Israeli locals and didn't necessarily feel welcome in the country, I will always value the opportunities I had to visit the geographical locations of Biblical events, specifically the places where Jesus spent His time. Seeing these places provided me with an educational and spiritual experience that has had a great impact on me. In both Jordan and Israel, I was able to learn about different aspects of each country's history as well as different aspects of their current culture. Visiting Yad Vashem, the Holocaust museum in Jerusalem for example, was one of the most powerful moments of the trip and allowed me to learn about a chapter of Israel's history in a very meaningful way.
One of the things I was most surprised by on the trip was the exposure I had to three religions: Islam, Judaism, and Christianity. Before I left, I did not know that I would be experiencing places where these three religions intertwined. I experienced these very different religions in such real ways in a short period of time. Even if I wanted to escape it, there was nowhere to go! I had to embrace the culture if I was going to survive and make the most of my time there.
In both Jordan and Israel, I learned a lot about the Muslim religion and its history, and was also able to see the way it manifests itself in today's culture. I felt the impact of it the most being a woman in Jordan and having to adjust my wardrobe accordingly. Thank goodness I can rock a head scarf. :) When I was in Jerusalem, surrounded by Orthodox Jews I was reminded of the Christian religion's history and its roots that lie in Judaism. It is crazy to me how the two religions have so much in common, yet we as people are so different in our beliefs, customs, and share different perspectives on many things. Although I was never surrounded by many Christians, this trip gave me the chance to focus on my faith, its role in my life, and the history behind it. Now, more than ever, I am confident that Christianity is not based on blind faith. It is amazing to see the places that I've read about in the Bible, and understand that Jesus' life and resurrection is not a made up story, but the greatest news for all who are willing to listen! One of the most striking differences I noticed about Christianity, and Lutheranism in particular, in comparison to other religions (two of which I've experienced quite intensely in the past month) is that it simply DOESN'T MATTER what you wear, what your lineage is, if you're wealthy, if you're a man or a woman, how many pilgrimage sites you've visited, if you fit in with society etc. Instead, the gift of grace and love from Jesus is just that, a GIFT for all who believe. This is seriously mind blowing to me! Oftentimes, we get so caught up in the negative aspects of organized religion and the complications the come with a religious community. However, when you get down to it, the unconditional, abundant, saving love of Jesus is AMAZING and I am so thankful that I have known that love all my life. As Easter Sunday quickly approaches, I am looking forward to rejoicing like I've never rejoiced before!
In addition to the spiritual and physical aspects of the trip, a key component about a bike trip such as this one is the time that I got to spend with my dad. Lord knows he is an odd duck, and the more time I spend with him, the more I appreciate the idiosyncrasies that make him so unique. I take pleasure in the fact that we have some similar qualities (although I'm hoping that's never going to be the case when it comes to wardrobe). For those who know my father, you are likely aware that he is extremely intelligent, adventurous, and values time with his family above everything else. He is always looking for ways to spend more time with his children, and except for my sister Ingrid, we have all experienced a bike trip with him. It is a real treat for me to get to spend so much uninterrupted time with him. He may chew too loudly for my liking and I wish he would wear deodorant (at least when we go out to public places), but he is who he is and I admire him for his fearlessness and unencumbered spirit! I also am grateful to him because not only did he organize the entire trip, pay for it, and provide me with a budget to spend at Lululemon on athletic wear before we left (I know, it was amazing), he encouraged me through my most difficult days. At home, he continues to support and encourage me (in addition to all of my siblings), and whether it's on a bike trip or on good ol' Hollyburn Road, I know I can always count on him.
We've certainly had some amazing cycling trips together:
Mississippi River Trail: 2009 |
Las Vegas to Lakeside, MT: 2012 |
Fagernes, Norway: 2015
Each trip has been unique and I am grateful for all of the adventures we've had on those bicycles. |
Back at home, things have already returned to normal. Dad is working at his desk and I'm distracting him with my singing while Mom takes pictures of it all. Dad and I have eaten an entire loaf of bread and can't help but scarf down anything in sight. We have become so used to the idea that when there is food, we have to eat it because we don't know when we will have it next! I've assured Mom that this won't last forever.
Before I sign off for the final time, I would like to express my deepest thanks and gratitude for all of your encouraging words and prayers. My heart was full each time I opened a message from any of you readers (or when you sent your regards through my mother). It felt like you were all alongside us for the journey! Some people have inquired about what's next for me. I'm sure you will not be surprised to hear that I am only home for ten days before I head out of the country again. This time, NO BIKE! On April 8th, I will leave for Florida where I will join a Holland America ship, "The Zuiderdam" and make my way through Central America and then over to Europe for 25 days. My mom will be joining me for the transatlantic crossing and ten days in Europe. Maybe I should get more friends because I seem to do a lot of traveling with my parents...However, I figured if Dad took me on the trip to the Middle East, it's only fair that I take Mom with me on a cruise to Europe. Dad doesn't see how the math adds up on this one...
Mom took this picture and said "Oh Annika, you've GOT to put this one on the blog". Not really sure why, but there ya go, Mom. |
It's been a pleasure documenting our trip and I cannot wait to look back on it in years to come. We thank God that we made it home safely without any injury and will hold the memories of this adventure in our hearts for years to come. I am sure my life will continue to be filled with new experiences (around the world as well as at home), incredible people, and interesting stories. I'll let you all know if I decide to write a blog about any of them. :)
Final Night! Victory In The Air! |
Love always,
Annika